Sunday, April 15, 2012

Sleeping in class or not? That is the question

My latest job is substitute teaching for major independent school district. It is not an easy job to step into a teachers position. Since employed I have substitute taught for 6 classes. Of the six classes, I have had 2 really bad, 1 mediocre, and 3 great experiences.

It did not realize how hard it was to substitute teach until I stepped in front of those students and in most cases in a wheel chair. Let me start off by saying, I want to apologize to all teachers and substitute teachers I ever gave a hard time to. If I did this, I should have had my "shiny hiny kicked!"

My last experience really surprised me most of all. My allergies were bothering me when I woke up that morning. I couldn't even put my make up on. I was swollen really bad but couldn't call out because I was committed and there was a teacher depending on me. During the showing of a video, I had closed my burning eyes. I then proceeded to do some stretching and jerking exercises because my neck was really hurting, not to mention the head-ache I was having. I moved my neck forward and tensed my muscles, back and to the side. Held them and stretched in place. I heard the giggles. I noted a little "gurggling" which I do sometimes, when I am not feeling good. I just hoped that no one was watching me for fear of students making fun of an old lady in a wheelchair. Of course, I had a feeling they heard and watched. They giggled. I popped off and stated "What did I snore?" Bad comment on my behalf.

At the end of the day when I signed out, the principal (or v-principle) showed me a picture that a student had snapped of me with their cell phone. What must they have thought? It wasn't even a good picture. She told me it would probably end up on the web. I told the truth about my allergies and the stretching due to my arthritis. After I left the school, I then realized how it might have looked to the seniors in the classroom -- the noises, the eyes shut, the movement of my head not to mention the smart comment I made about snoring.

I came home and wrote a short letter to my HR recruiter. I realized that even though it was against the rules for the student to do what they did, I didn't feel that it warranted the student getting into trouble. (Something I should have said in the school office but didn't. I was also remembering a student who was suspended for taking the same type of picture earlier this year of a sub-teacher sleeping in class.)

Students make dumb mistakes thinking they are doing the correct thing. We shouldn't discourage the students for correcting a situation they perceive as wrong. The problem is should they break the rules to correct a situation? Depends on the situation. In this case I do not know the outcome of what happened to the student who took my picture. I know they should be counseled with but to punish no.

Apparently a parent reported it to the school, which they should. But regardless, I am an honest person and hope that all will be well by Monday. I know now it is harder for me to be a substitute than I thought. I learned a really great lesson, that I am not as "cool" as I think I am and I have to watch everything I do in front of those students.

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Important Question?

Can a mother be a man? Yes --- in a New York minute! He can change a diaper and wipe a nose. Can a mother be a father? Yes -- a woman can put a worm on a hook just as fast as a man.

Important Questions ?

Does giving birth make you a mother? Does having a child in a relationship make you a father? On both accounts no. Just because you have a biological connection to a child makes you not a mother or a father. A real father or mother is painful, tearful, dramatic, tempered, hurt, love, hate, like, giving of one's needs totally to the point of distraction and so on. The biggest thing you can give you child doesn't come in the form of a gift. The biggest thing you can give your child is "YOUR TIME."

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